Where freedom meets family, flavor, and a little Frankie Beverly & Maze.
1. The Cookout Fit (That You Know You Planned Weeks Ago)
Whether itโs a crisp linen set, or your freshest sneakers, come correct. Bonus points if it matches the red, black, and green and red, white, and blue.
2. The Grill Master
Every Black family has that uncle or cousin whoโs king of the grill. Give him his tongs, his towel over the shoulder, and donโt question his technique.
3. Soul Food Staples
Mac and cheese (baked, not boxed), ribs, fried fish, baked beans, potato salad (made by the right person only).
4. Classic Cookout Playlist
Start with Frankie Beverly & Maze, slide into Earth, Wind & Fire, sprinkle in Beyoncรฉโs “Before I Let Go”, then mix it up with some Afro-beats, โ90s R&B, and Southern hip-hop. Your speaker should be loud and proud.
5. Foldable Chairs & โThe Tableโ
Of course you need seating for the elders, a table just for spades and dominoes, and another for the food. Donโt mix them up. Respect the hierarchy.
6. Frozen Drinks & Non-Alcoholic Treats
From slushies and watermelon margaritas to Kool-Aid (red flavor, obviously), make sure everyoneโs sipping on something refreshing. Donโt forget water, itโs hot out here.
7. Card Games, Dominoes & Trash Talk
If youโre not yelling across the table or slamming down a domino like it owes you money, is it even the 4th?
8. Fireworks, Sparklers & Little Kids Running Around with Glow Sticks
The night isnโt complete without fireworks and that one cousin lighting them way too close to the house.
9. Community & Joy
Whether you’re with blood relatives or chosen family, this day is about us. Celebrate Black joy, resilience, and togetherness โ because thatโs revolutionary in itself.
โจ Bonus: Know Your History
Not everyone was free on July 4, 1776. Itโs okay to acknowledge that while still showing up in community and celebration. Double down on pride, power, and purpose.
