Where freedom meets family, flavor, and a little Frankie Beverly & Maze.
1. The Cookout Fit (That You Know You Planned Weeks Ago)
Whether it’s a crisp linen set, or your freshest sneakers, come correct. Bonus points if it matches the red, black, and green and red, white, and blue.
2. The Grill Master
Every Black family has that uncle or cousin who’s king of the grill. Give him his tongs, his towel over the shoulder, and don’t question his technique.
3. Soul Food Staples
Mac and cheese (baked, not boxed), ribs, fried fish, baked beans, potato salad (made by the right person only).
4. Classic Cookout Playlist
Start with Frankie Beverly & Maze, slide into Earth, Wind & Fire, sprinkle in Beyoncé’s “Before I Let Go”, then mix it up with some Afro-beats, ‘90s R&B, and Southern hip-hop. Your speaker should be loud and proud.
5. Foldable Chairs & “The Table”
Of course you need seating for the elders, a table just for spades and dominoes, and another for the food. Don’t mix them up. Respect the hierarchy.
6. Frozen Drinks & Non-Alcoholic Treats
From slushies and watermelon margaritas to Kool-Aid (red flavor, obviously), make sure everyone’s sipping on something refreshing. Don’t forget water, it’s hot out here.
7. Card Games, Dominoes & Trash Talk
If you’re not yelling across the table or slamming down a domino like it owes you money, is it even the 4th?
8. Fireworks, Sparklers & Little Kids Running Around with Glow Sticks
The night isn’t complete without fireworks and that one cousin lighting them way too close to the house.
9. Community & Joy
Whether you’re with blood relatives or chosen family, this day is about us. Celebrate Black joy, resilience, and togetherness—because that’s revolutionary in itself.
✨ Bonus: Know Your History
Not everyone was free on July 4, 1776. It’s okay to acknowledge that while still showing up in community and celebration. Double down on pride, power, and purpose.
